The What’s Been Going On Post

The last couple of months, I have been the queen of vague tweets.  My Twitter account went into lockdown in February.  Now it’s come to the point where I’m comfortable talking about what’s going on in my life.

1.  I had been doing some soul searching about what I want to do with my career.  While I’m good at what I do, the next logical step career wise is no longer where I want to go.  So looking at what I like to do, it kept coming back to project management functions.  I had a discussion with my boss about this and right before Christmas I was approved to take courses towards Certified Associate in Project Management.  The actual processing of my application took a lot longer, so in the meantime I earned the equivalent to a Six Sigma Yellow Belt.  I started taking the project management courses in April, but had to put them on hold for a few weeks while the busy season at work started.

2.  February I was asked to interview for a leadership program.  My first thought was are they sure they have the right person?  I ultimately was not selected to participate in that program, but it was a great experience interviewing and meeting people who I would not have had the chance to previously.  Then in March another leadership program was announced which would be a little less intensive and more geared towards what I want to do with my career.  I was accepted to participate in this program and was told that I was one of the top candidates that interviewed.  This is a one year program that starts in June.

3.  Then I got the crazy idea may be it’s time for me to go back to school.  My undergraduate degree has absolutely nothing to do with anything remotely related to what I do now.  I feel kind of odd telling people what it is in, especially in job interviews.  Now choosing a school was quite easy since my husband works for a college that has an online MBA and as his spouse, I’m eligible for his tuition discount.  A very generous tuition discount because he has been employed there for a good amount of time.  I still had to apply and be accepted which I officially found out I was last week.  I start my first class the end of next month.  It’s a pass/fail preparatory course that I technically do not need since I already met the statistics requirement, but since I haven’t been in school for 14 years and have never take an online course, I thought it was a good idea.  I will also not be taking any financial aid to go back to school.  Between my husband’s discount and my employer’s tuition reimbursement program, the final tuition cost per class is ridiculous.  I still will have to buy or most likely rent textbooks, but I refuse to go into debt for this.

4.  A few weeks ago an employee in my division left and his position is exactly where I would want to go next with my career.  It’s project management based, but it also has some web based responsibility.  Now all my web experience is self learned minus a HTML class I took in college.  Now I got a sneak peek at how this website is updated and this position is not for hard code programming, but updating via a database.  Something I could easily handle.   Last week I had a scheduled phone conversation with the employee who handles a similar system to discuss my application for the open position.   Now I’m waiting for the hiring manager to schedule some time to meet with me.  Did I mention this is our busy season?  So my tweet on Thursday was a little premature, but I have a good feeling.

So in a nutshell, that is what has been going on with my life.  My professional life at least.  Will there still be vague tweets? Most likely.  But now you know what has been driving them.

Friend Making Monday – Q & A

If you’ve taken part in FMM then you know the rules. If you’re new, please take a moment to answer this week’s question on your own blog then add your link in the comments section here at: www.alltheweigh.com so we can all see your FMM questions and answers. Please invite your blog readers to add their links here too so everyone has to opportunity to be seen. The idea is to connect with other awesome bloggers so take a moment to post your own FMM post and comment on a couple of other posts. Now it’s time for this week’s topic!

FMM: Q & A

1. What’s the most obnoxious word/phrase you use on a regular basis? Seriously!  At least 10 times a day.  Sometimes even just at the computer screen, TV, dog, cat, random cars, etc.

2. What’s the most memorable bumper sticker you’ve ever seen?  There is not one bumper sticker that sticks out in my mind.  I know I’ve seen memorable ones.

3. Share one pet peeve that causes you more grief than it should. Things need to be symmetrical.  I was just telling the story to someone about when we were shopping for a house and I didn’t want to get out of the car because the windows in the front were not the same size.  Obviously one was a bathroom window, but it would just irk me too much to live there.

4. What are your thoughts on re-gifting presents?  Depends on the situation.  Ultimately, if I was given something that I can’t or will not use, but another person would use it or love it, then I think it works well for everyone.

5. What was your biggest accomplishment this week? My raised garden beds.  There would be a tweet for that.*

6. What’s the title of the last movie you watched? Technically I did watch about 5 minutes of Aliens on Friday night.  I couldn’t tell you the name of the last movie I watch completely because it’s one of those crappy SyFy movies that I love.

7. If you could only choose one, would you rather have a full-time cleaning person or a full-time chef? Since I only need a part-time chef, definitely a cleaning person.  How I would love an immaculate, spotless house with no pet hair anywhere.

8. Do you enjoy shopping for clothes, or do you dread it? For the most part I enjoy it.  But my new found selectiveness is starting to get annoying.

9. What’s your favorite sport to play/watch? My favorite sport to watch is hockey.  Let me tell you how much I am enjoying watching my beloved Devils in the playoffs.  Since I only play one sport, I guess bowling would have to be my favorite.

10. If you could have coffee with anyone today who would you choose? My old boss.  I’ve recently been in touch with her for a recommendation.  I would love to sit down with her and catch up.  I really miss having her in my life.

Now it’s your turn.  Don’t forget to come back and link up in the comments.

*After writing out question 10, I realized that maybe my biggest accomplishment this past week should have been being accepted into a MBA program.  The problem is I do not think it’s fully sunk in that I’m going back to school at the end of next month.

Choosing to Get Back In the Game

Yesterday morning I was up at some awful hour because of a beagle who thinks it rules the house.  No dog the cat does.  Get it right.  Anyway, I took the opportunity to start to write the blog post about what I have been secretive about on Twitter.  Then while sitting there, I decided I wanted to go for a run.  I looked at the time and had an hour before I needed to get in the shower.  Ok I can do this.

Now lets just say that running in my life has been…oh nonexistent…the last few month.  Basically you can add all exercise minus walking to that list.  Since I’ve had significant break in running, I decided that may be it would be a good idea to repeat C25K.  I decided on Week 4 – Warm up, jog 1/4 mile,  walk 1/8, jog 1/2  mile, walk 1/4 mile, jog 1/4 mile, walk 1/8 mile, jog 1/2 mile, cool down.

It was the perfect set of intervals to get me running again.  More jogging than walking, but the walk breaks were just long enough for me to recover.  I actually could say I missed running.  Honestly I don’t think my numbers were half bad.

Notice what number is missing?  Heart Rate.  Let’s not get my started at how annoyed I am that the heart rate read 11o  the entire run.  And this is after I sent my strap and transmitter to Polar for replacement.  I’m not sure if the issue is with Polar or Runkeeper at this point.

But I do have to admit, my playlist was fun.  It was from my running playlist as in all the songs have run in them.

Run Around – Blues Traveler
Run to You – Lady Antebellum
Running on Empty – Jackson Brown
Born to Run – Bruce Springsteen
Life is a Highway – Tom Cochrane
Pumped Up Kicks – Foster the People
Against the Wind – Bob Segar
Run to You – Bryan Adams

And how about one of those sweaty after workout pictures that all the cool kids post?

So what when’s my next run?  Monday after work, weather permitting.

Pinterst Inspirations: Hydrangea Wreath

I spend a good amount of time on Pinterest.  I’ve found some great ideas and recipes.  But Pinterst can also be a time suck vortex.  Especially when you say you are going to make something the in the near future and never do.  I have 3 projects that are on the top of my to make list.  The supplies have been bought, so lets get started.

Knock-off Williams-Sonoma Hydrangea Wreath

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When I saw this pin, I did not know it was a knock-off.  I just liked the wreath.  I’m a sucker for hydrangeas.  I love their colors.  When I pinned this I even wrote going to Joanne’s tomorrow.  Well a week later isn’t half bad in my book.

Supplies:

4 – Hydrangea Stems  (From Joanne’s – I ended up using 2)
1 – 14 inch Grapevine Wreath (This came from AC Moore)
Wire Cutters (Sissors would have worked, but I had already gathered them)
Glue Gun and Glue (Not pictured because it’s behind me warming up)

1.  Start by removing flower bunches from the stems.  There were 2 different ways these were attach to the ones that I bought.  1 could be pulled off the stem and used as is and the other needed to be cut apart.

2.  Place bunches on your wreath as a test to make sure you are going to like the placement before you glue them to your wreath.  I ended up alternating bunches that needed cutting vs bunches that did not.

3.  When you are happy with the placement, remove one at a time, glue and place back on the wreath.  Do this around the wreath.

4.  Hang up your wreath and enjoy!

I could have used all 4 bunches to make a fuller wreath, but when I was in the testing stage I realized having 2 rows of hydrangeas would cover my peephole.  Not good.  And it’s also keeping the cost down since these suckers weren’t cheap.

Thank goodness they were 50%.  The crafter’s dilemma - how much is this going to cost and would I spend this much on something pre-made?  My answer was yes.  If I used all 4 bunches, the project would have cost me about $25.  By being able to return 2 bunches, the project cost is reduced to about $15.  Much better than the  $130 on the store made one with bad reviews.

Changing My Attitude About Thrifting

Today I had to run to the craft store that is not in my usual shopping haunts.  I don’t know about you, but I have different reasons to go to different craft stores.  Since I was looking for a specific size in a grapevine wreath, that meant a trek over to AC Moore in Orange.  Luckily they had what I was looking for, but that’s for another post.

Also in Orange is this thrift store called Savers.  I’ve always had luck there finding household items there, but I’ve never been lucky in their clothing section.   It makes me sad because I see bloggers getting such cute clothes or even new Target stock at their local thrift stores.  Today I had patience on my side, so I thought I’d stop in and see what they had.

At first I thought I had a score with 3 Banana Republic shirts, but one was not a good style on and the other 2, which were button down, did not fit my correctly.  After thinking about it, I’m wondering if they were altered for a busty woman with a smaller waist.

But I did not let that deter me.  Just finding Banana items on the rack alone gave me the motivation to keep going.  I took a basket full of items into the dressing room.  Some even had tags.  I even had to contemplate what I was going to purchase.  For example a super cute skirt with a broken zipper in an odd  size and color may not a good purchase because I have yet to sew a zipper in something perfectly.  But I did manage to come home with a bag full.

Left to right:

Talbots khakis – $7.99  - total score since I’ve been shopping for a pair of khakis to replace my too big Old Navy ones from 2005.  If these are pre-owned, the person should have a medal for taking care of their clothes.  They are in mint condition.  They are also a petite in a larger size.  I’m not sure if anyone else needs to go up a size for a petite or if I’m the only weird one.

Loft Sweater – $6.99 – you can barely see the size sticker in the pic.  While the price tag is not on this one, I call this NWTs.  It wasn’t a need since it’s starting to be out of season, but the price was right.

Ann Taylor Pants –  #14.99 – both tags are attached.  Minus the length, these fit great.  Notice the length difference between these and the Talbots pants.  I’m going to take this to be professionally hemmed so I can have the perfectly hemmed pant to be a guide for other pants that I can hem.

Monterey Bay Clothing Company Skirt – $5.99 – I had no idea about this brand, I just liked the pattern of the skirt.  It’s a little long so I may alter this one.

And now for what I call the big score.

Loft Suit – $14.99 – This is not new because of the folding around the waist band, but it is in perfect condition.  There is no other signs of wear on it.  Even with a trip to the dry cleaners, you couldn’t touch a new suit for this price.  It’s going to be a great addition to my professional wardrobe that is in need of expanding.

Impressively to me, I spent $54 and came home with 5 quality pieces.  May be my attitude has changed about thrifting.  Especially since I’m thinking about when my next trip to Savers should be.

Happy Easter

Happy Easter to all who celebrate.  My day will be filled with serving at Mass, taking the Beagle for a hike and a buffet dinner with my husband’s family.

For the past forty days, I gave up all processed snack food.  Surprisingly it was easier than I thought.  I did find a substitute for my chip craving thanks to Jake’s Wayback Burgers and their homemade chips.  The hardest part was going to parties since I’m a big fan of chips and dips.  At one party they had this amazing queso dip and dipping carrots in it just didn’t work out that well.  Not being able to have crackers also was a challenge since I will grab some cheese and Wheat Thins as an afternoon snack.

What did this experiment do for my weight loss?  Absolutely nothing.  I’m ending the Lenten season about the same weight I started.  But it’s broke my addition to potato chips.  Now if I’m craving chips, I go over to Jake’s.  Yes, it’s more calories, but they taste so much better than something I can purchase in a bag.

I will continue to avoid processed snack foods, but not give them up totally.   I know there are a couple of cracker recipes out there.  May be  it’s time for me to give them a try.  And I’ll have chips when I’m at parties or get together, but I think keeping them in the house is not a good idea.

I never came up with a challenge to do for a donation.  It just slipped my mind.

Lent and My Plan For the Next 40 Days

We are 3 days into this year’s Lent.  I made it through Ash Wednesday and fasting.  It wasn’t that bad.  I did have a coffee around 3 pm.  My reasoning was so I don’t kill anyone.  Made it to the 5 pm prayer service at my church and bowling later that night.  I have to admit felt a little woozy while bowling.  Nothing like OMG I have to sit down, but when I was standing on the lane I felt a little off.  No big deal.  Ash Wednesday and bowling only overlap one day a year.  I can manage.

I have no problem with abstaining from meat on Fridays.  During my youth, I really didn’t have meat on Friday’s year round.  Plus I love most types of seafood.  For my lifestyle it will just require for me to plan ahead and may be an extra trip to the grocery store since I only buy fresh seafood the day I’m going to cook it.  One goal I’m setting for myself this year is to plan some meals using beans as the protein source.  This is different for me  since I use beans as an addition to a recipe with meat.

Another part of the Lenten traditions from my youth is giving up something you love.  I have been known to be a little sneaky here and give up something specific like Resse’s Peanut Butter Cups.  See I’m giving up something I loved, but not giving up chocolate completely.  Notice I said loved since I can no longer have peanut butter, but that’s for another post.

This year I decided to give up  all processed snack food.  You heard me.  No packaged chips (ugh my beloved Pop Chips), cookies, crackers, etc.  If I want something, I have to make it or buy something that is freshly made.  Yes, I have something to make potato chips with in the microwave and they don’t come out that bad.  I’m still looking for items to fill that 3 pm carb craving that I get almost every day.  But what ever I fill this craving with will be much healthier than a bag of processed crap.

Speaking of cravings, last night I was craving a cupcake.  The craving was pretty bad and was one of those cravings that if I don’t satisfy it, it is going to get worse.  I actually went to the local grocery  store in my sweatpants for a cupcake.   They didn’t have any in the case that appealed to me, so I came home with a donut instead.  That cured my craving and it’s over and I can move on.  Giving up sweets for Lent isn’t going to happen.  I’m not that strong.

I’m still working on the almsgiving part.   Last year I donated $5 a pound lost during Lent to Operation Rice Bowl.  Since I’m not pulling the big numbers like I was last year, I need to think of a new challenge.

In case you want some reading material, here’s a pretty complete explanation to what Lent is.

Friend Makin Monday – Travel

Here’s my first Friend Makin Monday on the new blog.   I’ve always enjoyed Kenlie’s weekly  posts and plan on participating in FMM here too.

If you’ve taken part in FMM then you know the rules. If you’re new, please take a moment to answer this week’s question on your own blog then add your link in the comments section at: www.alltheweigh.com so we can all see your FMM questions and answers. Please invite your blog readers to add their links here too so everyone has to opportunity to be seen. The idea is to connect with other awesome bloggers so take a moment to post your own FMM post and comment on a couple of other posts. Now it’s time for this week’s topic!

FMM: Travel

  1. Where did your most recent trip take you?  I’m not going to count Christmas in New Jersey so it was a business trip to Boston.
  2. Is there a place that you’d like to visit that you haven’t yet?  If so, where?  Trying to pick just one place I’d like to visit is hard.   So I’m going domestic and saying Arches National Park.  I have been dying to go there for a few years.  I even have the trip semi-mapped out with flying into Salt Lake City, driving to Arches, the Grand Canyon and any other park we want to hit up.  Then flying out from Las Vegas.   Yep, this is not going to be a short trip.
  3. Do you travel lightly, or do you cram as much into your luggage as possible?  Depends on where I’m going and how I’m getting there.  Example when we drive to New Hampshire I feel like we bring everything and the kitchen sink.  Similar when we go down to Atlantic City.  Because we have a car at  our disposal, I feel I can pack more.  But when I travel on business, it’s the bare essentials – a small carry on suitcase, medium LL Bean bag and laptop bag.
  4. Do your eating and exercise habits change when you travel? If so, how?  Since I’m not cooking majority of my meals, yes my eating habits change.  I also do not restrict myself, but I do keep things within moderation.  I also try to be more  active since I may not be doing “formal” exercise.
  5. Tell us about a place you’ve been that you’d like to go back to.  Yellowstone.  When I was in high school, my parents and I packed up our family truckster and drove from New Jersey to Wyoming.  It was an amazing vacation with amazing memories.  I would love to share this experience again with my husband.
  6. Do you prefer to travel at a certain time of year?  I travel all year, but I find the best time to travel for pleasure is early September.  The kids have gone back to school, but the weather is still warm.
  7. If you had to choose, would you go to the beach or the mountains?  Since I already have a yearly trip to the mountains, I’m going to pick the beach.  And by beach I mean Caribbean.  I could use a vacation where I sit in a lounge chair and someone brings me fruity drinks with an umbrella.
  8. Have you ever needed a passport to travel?  It wasn’t needed at the time (pre 911), but our travel agent suggested we had one when we went on our honeymoon to the Bahamas.  I’m pretty sure the laws have changed and you now need one to go to Canada and Mexico.  A passport is useful to have.  I know I use it when I fly.
  9. Do you collect anything in your travels?  Memories and pictures.  I’m not into knick knacky type stuff.  If I’m going to buy something it’s usually a unique piece.
  10. Where do you plan to go next?   Either Boston or Atlantic City.  I’m not sure which one will come first.

A Change Will Do You Good

via Pinterest

I knew a change was coming. There was this feeling that I had outgrown my old blog.  I wanted to start fresh with this new person that I’m becoming.  I still plan being considered  a healthy living/fit blogger, but I also want it not to feel strange if I post about crafting or what I wore one day.  And I wanted a name that more represented me.  I don’t think I could get more personal than Being Marla.  I plan on changing my Twitter user name to beingmarla and unlocking it.  It’s just hard for me to give up a user name I’ve had for so long.

If you followed my RSS feed for My Practical Life, you need to switch to the new feedhttp://beingmarla.wordpress.com/feed/

Why WordPress.com instead of a self hosted blog?  A couple of reasons.  1.  I  wanted simple and just standard options.  At this point, the least customization I had to do the better.  2.  Cost.  I do not want to pay another monthly fee.  If fact by doing this, I’m going to be able to upgrade something else in my life (that’s for another post).

I sense bigger changes are on the horizon.  I hope you will still want to follow me on my journey.

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